PP 406: Rhoberta Shaler PhD, Relationship Consultant Mediator, Author and Speaker from For Relationship Help

“There are ways to be empowered to move toward taking the best steps for your physical, mental, and spiritual well being.”

Have you ever heard the term “hijackle”? This word is trademarked and explained by Rhoberta Shaler, a relationship consultant, mediator, author and speaker from For Relationship help. Hijackles are people who hijack relationships for their own purposes and then relentlessly scavenge them for power and control. Listen in as Kim and Rhoberta dig in deep and discuss the traits of hijackers, how to handle them, and step up and move forward.

Highlights:
1:12 What Rhoberta does
2:15 Trademark of “hijackles”
3:52 Hijackles paint perfection
7:35 Seeing the signs
12:02 What to do if you find yourself in a relationship with a hijackle
16:44 Safely reach out
18:50 Law of attraction
23:56 Personal weather reports
27:30 Stop the shoulda, woulda, coulda’s
29:38 Avoid becoming a hijackle yourself

Don’t be hijackle bait! Join @thekimsutton as Rhoberta Shaler teaches us how to spot the signs of hijackles, and learn how to be empowered and take the steps to your overall wellbeing. http://www.thekimsutton.com/pp406 #positiveproductivity Click To Tweet

Resources Mentioned

Rhoberta’s Books:
Kaizen for Couples

Quotes

2:18 “Hijackles are people who hijack relationships for their own purposes and then relentlessly scavenge them for power and control.”
18:11 “There are ways to be empowered to move toward taking the best steps for your physical, mental, and spiritual well being.”
21:46 “When you start to pay attention to who you are and what you want and align that with your values, your vision for your life and your beliefs about everything, and you know the results you want. When that alignment is there and you focus on it, big things happen.”
25:14 “You cannot know what is right, good, or best for another human. When you try to give instruction to another person who is close to you. They may, in fact, rebel or feel uncomfortable if they are not terribly evolved and able to see that what you’re expressing is mutuality and want the best for you.”

Episode Transcription

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